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Masa i sekolah2 dulu, mak i larang betul kitoarg berchenta2. Jangankan chenta bersosialan dgn the opposite sex pun takde can because semua pi masuk sekolah single sex. So kiranya tuduhan2 yg tak berasas mengatakan bekas2 penuntut sekolah katak bersikap bohsia memang tak betul langsung...kita ni set dengar cakap2 mak pak, mak cakap akan tetapi bila masuk uni, masa tulah nak mencari (amboi2, mak pak risau anaknya nanti jadi andalusia)...macam senang! Dah le kita pi tempat omputih, nak kawin omputih dia tak kasi, buat pulak course yg takdak melayu, so how??? Apsal la jaman2 tu i sungguh la mendengar kata, kalau idak anak i mungkin dah yg ada bermata hijau uols! For parents out there, i nak bagi nasihat, jangan sekat2 sangat aktiviti sosial anak2 ni...berpada2 OK lah..(ni nak baca M&B pun kena sorok2 u..sekarang ni kalau nak start pun dah terlewat. Pasal sekarang ni kita dah sedar yg cite2 tu semua dusta belaka! Mana ke ada jantan latino racing car driver kaya rende, tdh, syok kat minah 19 tahun yg innocent and jantan tu jenis one woman man lak?? Cuba tengok Tigerwoods yg bukan latino and setakat pegang kayu golf je tu, rope pun idak la henesem tapi perangai ngalahkan bapak ayam. Pas tu cuba tengok si Memek tu, baru setahun jagung, tapi innocent ke dia??)

Btw, cite i ni dah hilang misi nya. What i was going to say, yeah... yeah, you so try to be a bohsia tapi tak menjadi, tapi sebohsia2 i, i start lambat OK? I tak pi mengorat memana jantan masa kat asrama tau...ngorat super duper senior lagi..oops, cite ni takde kena mengena dgn sesapa hidup atau mati.

Life is about taking risks, it's about facing challenges...tak kisah la dari segi career or love life. One cannot exist by just makan tidur (walaupun nasik 8 kali tambah, karipap 8 ketul and nasi lemak 4 bungkus)tengok tv and pi kerja. Of course with risk taking, we are exposed to disappointment but think about the exhilaration, the reward etc. if it succeeds. Some people are lucky...sekali je jumpa orang, terus tersangkut. Itu bahagian dia..but lambat laun, who knows ada musibah ...mesti ada punya because that's life. Langit tidak akan selalu cerah (cewah!)...i know of 2 colleagues yg berchenta2 dari sekolah atau masuk2 uni je, pas tu kahwin and beranak pinak. Both of them lost their husbands in the mid 30's...one of them tu patah hati sampai tak kawin2 lagi even after 3o years because itulah chenta agungnya. I also know of one person yg kahwin 3 kali which ended in divorce and now ni with facebook, jumpa balik boipren lama yg dah menduda and they recently got married and she said that she's never been happier. Someone else i know pulak had a very abusive marriage...sampai bawak lari anak and nyorok2 dari laki. Masuk court turun court and it was a messy divorce. The last i heard, her Brazillian ex boipren from uni saw her on fb, they got in touch and now dah kawin and hopefully berbahagia ke anak cucu (the irony was, she actually left the Brazillian guy last time to marry that good for nothing ex husband of hers).

What i'm trying to say is that, when your heart has been broken, you can decide whether you'd want to shut everything out forever or indefinitely or you can opt to pick yourself up, brush off the dirt and move on. If you decide the latter, good for you but always keep a piece of your heart with you..jangan bagi 100%. If a break up does happen again, so what? After your heart has been broken once with one chenta agung, it's impossible to have it broken into pieces again.

Kenapa setengah orang bahagia cepat, kita kena menunggu? well, this is life. Orang yg bahagia cepat tu, cepat jugaklah dia kena be tied down with babies etc. takde le dia dapat kerja sana sini, terbang sana sini dapat menengok negara orang. For every second that you feel lonely tak berteman, every second jugaklah orang2 sebegitu rasa fed up kenkadang at their partner's beck and call (dapat pulak kalau jenis jantan yg nak nasik pun bini kena kautkan).

Nasihat ni takde kena mengena dgn sesapa hidup atau mati, tapi kalau terasa tu cepat2 la hapdate yeee...