Update

Someone closed to me confided in me about her problem. It had something to do with a certain person who is also closed to me. Confronting the other person would have rocked the boat, sour the ties or worse, breakup a marriage. I had to tell my sister about it. Her BP shot up..my approach was to wait and see... it’s a delicate subject, so to solve it bak kata pepatah, bagai menarik rambut di dalam tepung. We waited for some divine intervention to show us the way to handle it. Until my sis sms one day, jom pi DSyifa..the place where the famous tokguru berubat cara islam...no one had to be cured of anything, we just wanted to know whether the person is telling the truth (kalau boleh pi tukang tilik, dah lama my sis heret i).

So we went and we waited. The afternoon session started at 2pm. We got there early after lunch. The waiting period was nerve wrecking. My sis had a snooze sampai berdengkur. My thoughts were transported a few years back masa jaman takde anak dulu. I dragged my bff to that place. Yes, ive been there before. It was one of the lowest moments in my marriage. I thought MG was acting weird. Badan2 penasihat tak bertauliah cakap mungkin dia ada pompuan lain. Ada lain cakap, ada pompuan pi buat dia....my bro thought i should not leave the house no matter what. He wanted to bring me to meet his friend who specialised in divorce matters. We had just bought the house....divorce was not an option...i had no money to start fresh. Until one point, i thought enough is enough. I couldn’t stand it anymore when the badan penasihat tak bertauliah suh buat itu ini..suh baca ayat kursi sampai 300X satu malam, 3 malam berturut2...ada yg suh bungkus tilam dgn kain putih buat cam nak kapan, biar hantu tu ingat we all dah mati so dia tak datang kacau dah..

So one day, i said to my bff, jom pi teman i pergi DS. I just wanted to know whether there was any truth to all the cerita2. The moment i entered the counselling room, belum sempat duduk lagi the ustaz dah tanya, kenapa takde anak? I thought, wow! Spooky! Cam tau2 je. So, i cite semua...camna nak ada anak when my husband cam menyampah kat i (obviously la i tak masuk bab2 hormones i irregular etc. But i subur cam tanah delta pun kalau petani tak datang bajak tak jadi gak tanaman kan?). The ustaz cakap takde sapa buat sapa...mamat tu cuma kena sampuk dgn a very bad case of ego. Hish jantan! So he asked me to amalkan surah taha (thoha?) ayat 1-5 (ye puan2, ini panduan utk buat laki sayang kat kita, anak dengar cakap kita). I came back feeling like a big burden was lifted off my shoulder. Things did get better..i can’t remember how..i haven’t memorised the ayat, am supposed to baca and hembus kat ubun2 dia. I fell pregnant, dlm masa tu 3 bulan tak bercakap, sebab tu 3 bulan tak tau yg dah terpregnant. When i got little D, we had a salary hike (thankyou datoChuaSL)..it was quite a big increment, enough if i decided to be a single mum. God moves in mysterious ways..i dah ada anak utk pengikat kasih.

Back to the present day, the ustaz told us he was in no position to point a finger sapa yg cakap betul or tipu. All he can do is to mintak doa supaya sapa yg buat salah tu to insaf and tak buat lagi. I thought that was the best solution. He asked me where i live. He said tempat i tinggal tu sangat keras. He’s had a lot of cases from serata pelusuk tempat ni...kalau tak buat kacau cam langsuyak kat tempat uols CPK and DR, these makhluk2 halus will try to porak perandakan rumahtangga. This area used to be kebun getah and kelapa sawit with a few small temples. When the area was developed, they had nowhere to go, so dok berlegar2 kat sini gak (hence why i asked MG to tebas sikit garden/hutan kat depan rumah kitaorg. Kang ada yg dok singgah sambil main2 our wind chimes. Hish! Tegak bulu roma) He suggested that we always perform solat hajat and baca yassin and ask these beings to leave the house, nicely.
Teringat lak masa kelas agama i, the brother bagi we all tazkirah..do not let shaitan enter our lives. Bila nak masuk rumah bagi salam, makan baca bismillah or mula buat apa2 je and always eat with your right hand (a bit tricky dgn fork and knife). We may pandang benda ni remeh temeh but once shaitan bertapak kat dlm rumah and hati, bukan setakat kita lalai, rumahtangga kita pun depa akan kacau. Pas tu teringat lak i kat a few series of articles on feng shui i read on thestar a few years back. Ni cakap pasal kawasan yg elok2 utk bina/beli rumah etc. It mentioned that places yg tak elok tu sebab banyak bad vibes e.g. kat luar lengkuk S, kat tebing yg mengunjur ke laut etc. These places tend to invite those you know who to berlegar. Kalau pun dok kat situ, the occupants won’t be happy. I rasa cam ada persamaan lak dgn apa the master fs tu cakap and the ustaz.

Itu je la cerita i. I have a terrible cold, so sorry tak sempat balas previous comments. Kepada sesapa yg tengah berchenta tu, chenta chenta jugak, tapi sila hapdate jugak ye..!