I just got back from giving a talk..I knew about this from last month. Started preparing for it early this week, but as always needed the adrenaline to wrap things up..worked on it till 5am this morning, slept for 2 hours, got up, work some more and took a nap, got up, got ready and delivered. I was so nervous because the SV was around..in fact after the talk he said that he was in the audience and that i did a good job. After our meeting (which i will blog about it later), i rasa cam menyampah sesangat. Then bila dia puji2 pulak tadi, hati rasa berbunga2...why do i crave for his approval? Betul ke i did well? Betul la kut because he is not one to pora2 and never ever minced his words, arghhh who cares! (i do actually, so malam ni boleh tidur dgn nyenyaknya).
Tomorrow's mother's day. I think in my household, the person to be celebrated should be MG. Don't worry, this is not going to be about spouse appreciation yg boleh mengeluarkan muntah hijau...
I realised that the past 2 weeks, i have been rather preoccupied with my phd, my presentation...i leave the house before 7am every morning. He wakes Little D up and gets her ready for kindy. Then he'll send her to kindy with Baby X taking a ride in the car as well. Lepas pusing satu round, baru balik rumah, hantar si kecik, then baru pergi kerja. For the past few nights, i would be at the table and he'd entertain the kids, put them to bed sampai tertidur sekali dgn diaorg. Bila baby X merengek tengah malam, dia yg akan tepuk, bangun bancuh susu (even though maid that prepare everything). He hasn't complained yet that petang2 balik kerja takde hot drink...i selalu terlupa nak buat and kalau i ingatkan maid baru dia buatkan. On weekends, he'd be up earlier than me, pergi cari nasik lemak. And he'd take the kids to do groceries. Kalau i rajin i ikut sama, if not he'd go by himself.
He's shy, doesn't talk much and romantic? Satu zarah romantic pun takde kat badannya. When i talk, i don't think he listens to everything i say. He doesn't shower me with gifts, let alone affection. He doesn't realise i'm around pun kut...sekali sekala nak jugak kalau boleh dia ni jenis yg jeles2 gitu...kalau tak mintak saki baki tiket bas dari i (laki sapakah tu ye??? hehe) since i tak naik bas, sekali sekala tu jenguk le dlm keta i kan..kut2 ada setokin jantan ke...oh no no..not MG..
Anyway, this all would not be possible if not for MG...his laidback attitude suits me, now i realise we are a match made in heaven. Happy mother's day MG.
P/S Now you understand Esah, why i can't run away into the sunset with you...you are too much work for me bebey!

Hahaha! That's the first time I heard/read someone giving a Mother's Day tribute to her husband! But from your description, yupe, I think MG deserves it :) Nevertheless, I think you're a good mother too :) Happy Mother's Day to BOTH of you, hehe...
ReplyDeleteThanks anonymous! I don't think i deserve it this year but thanks anyway!
ReplyDeletei think MG deserves it too CK... mcm org lelaki lain.. ada jugak yg malu nak tunjuk affection takut bini kata gila ke hapa..but have given all they can and have to the family...
ReplyDeletelet me tell ya... cuba u yg tunjuk affection barang sebulan dua... fake it till you make it.. and see what happen.. i betcha he'll be more romantic... at least that's what happen in my case ;)
Ye ye laki aku species yg aneh dari Jupiter...
ReplyDeleteHappy mother's day babe to u both n to us all
DR
Ayda,
ReplyDeleteif i were to be anymore affectionate towards MG harus dia ambik restraining order against me!
DR,
Bukan aneh...dia sayang sangat kat bininya yg gorjes ittew...