Chenta pelesu

I just have like 10 minutes before i  need to pick Little D up from school. Ani BNS watsapp, dah boring2 camni hapdatelah, katanya...Hamboiii...tu dia nak read over afternoon tea lah tu. Anyway...

Ada cerita sikit. I know A through her blog and samar2 real life jugak. I envy her 'little world'. Anak yg baik2 yg mendengar cakap serta witty gitu. Her ability to cook, run errands for the family as well as having a career ..most importantly, her relationship yg mekar bugar dgn hubby dia. I think she has it all. Then kawan pada kawan pada kawan cakap he husband has an affair. Pastu i terfikir...kesiannya dia..mesti dia tak tau ni. Well, according to MG, the wife is always the last one to know...sesuatuuuu sangat statment ni kan?  Pandainya laki dia...boleh berlakon jadi stepford husbnad kat rumah and stepford boyfriend kat luar.

Lepas tu, dapat tau jugak dari kawan kepada kawan pada 'the other woman' that the wife knew, dah lama. All this while that she has been writing....yg tak best nak dengar tu is the husband had said to the kawan pada kawan that he is never the way she potrayed him to be...siap dia boleh gelak2kan lagi pulak the wife's potrayal of 'life is a bed of roses'..what hurts most (to me as a woman), boleh dia bercakap, ada ke orang yg nak kat my wife? (or look or ngorat, something like that lah).

Kalau betul apa yg sampai kat telinga i, sampai hati betul laki tu...Kalau dah tak suka kat bini you, leave je lah. Don't make her the laughing stock of your circle of friends. Janganlah stay disebabkan anak2 saja. I pity that woman...she must be so desperate to win his love or to convince herself that the man that had loved her so much once upon a time is still the same man. People fall out of love..him ending the affair to save the marriage doesn't mean he still love you the same. Kalau chenta dialah yg paling penting kat you, is the kind of love he's offering good enough for you? If it isn't, then leave. He's still going to be the father of your kids. Tak yah lah dah buat cerita yg degar2 how loving you two are with each other...of course it's your prerogative. Tapi yg kesiannya that guy you call sayang is laughing behind your back.

Itu je lah citenya..utk santapan minda petang ni.