Unmet expectations

Sometimes i feel in life, one really shouldn't have any kind of expectations for e.g.like expecting:
Your colleagues to stick up for you
Your best friend to be available when you need to be heard
Your husband/boyfriend to call you up or even sms you when they are away
Your child to turn out okay
Your subordinates to perform tasks as what you had in mind

More often than not
Your colleagues will make sure that they save their arses first
Your best friend would likely be in a meeting
Your hubby/bf may be having too good a time and usually they are not inborn with that telepathy thing with their wife/gf (it's the man thing)
A child will turn into an adult following the path that is destined for them
You and your subordinate have two different brains

As human beings we have needs and inadvertently, with needs, come expectations. How can some people say 'i entered marriage without any expectations'...this is really bull****. A marriage is like a contract..you agree to the contract whereby the unspoken rules are: to be faithful, responsible, love and cherish till death etc. etc.

This entry has nothing to do with Mr Gig or him misbehaving. Just to digress, seperti yg dititahkan oleh Hajah Esah Gelisah a.k.a Tuanku Esah i am putting MG on auction at ebay. Sesiapa yg berminat/taste uols can bid starting from RM3. Sebabnya, MG has incurred the wrath of Tuanku Esah for allowing little D to practise sucking on hp pemberian Tuanku (ampun kan patik nor..).

Anyway, to proceed with the initial issue, as long as i'm a mortal being, that eats (loads), shits (religiously), and farts (like nobody bussiness), i will have expectations and i must always be prepared to have them unmet once in a while.. the only thing i wish is to learn to not take it (really) to heart.