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Friday, August 2, 2013

Tazkirah

Hari ni masuk office pagi2 dah rasa macam angiinnn je..mungkin is nearing to that time of the month. Ataupun banyak perkara bertapuk one after another yg menjengkelkan hati. Bukak FB these days...the last time i felt quite worked up mungkin masa pre and post election haritu. Orang ni cakap camni, orang tu cakap camtu...pastu sikit2 nak upload pasal what team A thought of team B and vice versa. Nak perli here, provoke there...laa ni kalau tak pasal politik, pasal agama...

Ada yg jahil, tapi nakkkk jugak bagi pendapat..dah tu pendapat macam realll je..sampai kita pulak yg terfikir..eh? Aku salah ke selama ni? But sebenarnya 'aku' tak salah rupanya tapi bengong je because patut tanya kat orang tu pasal dalil dari mana dia dapat hukum hakam tu. Kalau dia pun cannot produce the source of the dalil, discard je lah kan. But how dangerous it is that dgn beraninya dia boleh menghalalkan apa yg haram for all to see..sungguh confident sekali...nyarislah Esah terpedaya and nak sign up for nikah mutaah punya contract.

Pastu pasal syiah-sunni. Bila nak kaji, tak boleh la setakat berguru dengan google and belajar through pesbuk je. Pi lah bertanya kepada orang yg bertauliah (janganlah pulak pi tanya dgn orang memana kat surau or masjid asal you nampak berjanggut and berserban). Janganlah heran and kata gomen/mufti/alim ulamak kita terover sensitive pasal haramkan syiah. Adalah sebab2nya and mereka tu lebih arif...but basically, syiah is golongan yang sesat and dah, jangan dok keriau2 nak pertikaikan ni. If you choose to be a (Malaysian/Malay) syiah bila asalnya elok2 sunni, it does not matter, pi lah menganut agama sembah gunung/matahari/pokok sekali pun because tahap kekufurannya tetap sama. Btw, nikah mutaah itu adalah dalil syiah ye....

Pastu isu anjing. Oiii..saya sangat suka anjing. Takut memang takut pasal takut dia lompat2 suka tak hengat donia and jilat kita...but compared to cats yg treat us like slaves? Dogs are men best friends gittew. Bila i dah pencen esok (and laki dah takde...why am i quite sure yg laki i akan mati dulu ye? Is it because one day i might drive him to suicide or dia merana sampai mati? Hish tak baik...! I'm a scientist..so my assumptions are based on the fact that women tend to live longer than men. Although, i do wish i go first because i sure hate to hidup sorang2), i berangan2 nak pindah ke rumah kampung, bela ayam itik and keep a dog for protection. I ni bukanlah sangat suka nak berkebun (takut pacat kan) atau menternak tapi because the thought that i get to keep a dog in a 'legal' way. Legal dari segi agama Islam. Kalau pun ye sapa tu kat fb tu nak menyemarakkan perasaan kasih sayang pada anjing di kalangan umat2 islam/melayu, tak yah la sampai tunjuk depa dok berkerumun kat meja nak makan kuih raya (is it?). Dah sah2 anjing peliharaan orang islam ada tugasnya, bukan untuk peluk2 sayang2 je dan of courselah tak boleh la masuk ke rumah! Gi la tunjuk you bagi makan kuih raya kat your dogs kat dalam barn ke, tepi pagar ke...Pastu bila orang islam dok keriau2, you kata we are being over-sensitive...but you saja nak provoke, itulah reaksi yg you akan dapat pun, you dah expect pun and you suka, kan? Pastu purak2 heran napa kita ni nak be so 'over-sensitive'. Kalau kata nak semai perasaan kasih sayang tu tadi, that's not the way. Lepas tu kata kita ni narrow-minded...i'm as broad-minded a person (with regards to religion) as you can get...but don't la mempersendakan hukum2 sampai begitu sekali. Cer check out this fb page. Tengok apa Aunty Umairah kata? If you guys want to know more about her and her work, pi check out her fb page.

Pastu ada pulak i come across yg cakap, 'eiiii! Saya loya dgn anjing! Dah la haram!'...aiyo kak...yg you pi makan daging anjing tu wat pa??? Memanglah haram....Suffice it to say, jangan jadi badut kepada kejahilan kita. There's a differnce between haram, najis, harus, makruh etc.  Dan jangan cepat nak menjatuhkan hukum makruh, haram etc...selagi tiada dalil yg mengatakan haram or makruh, you can carry on doing what you do..for e.g. berenang ketika puasa. Ada orang kata haramlah, makruhlah...mana dalilnya? Kita buat andaian je tu..bila berenang mesti segar..oooo..makruh tu. Or mesti terminum air...dah haram tu..padahal, namanya pun 'ter'.

Satu lagi, do not say 'god will understand' to justify your actions. For e.g. 'err...i'm in a meeting, cemana nak mintak diri to solat ye? Nanti kang my boss would take 5 because of me and it's not fair to others because nanti meeting lambat habis and depa mesti ada kerja lain or nak balik cepat. Takpelah, i qadha nanti, i'm sure god will understand'...no, no, no ye sayang! Wajib is wajib unless la nyawa you dalam bahaya.

Oklah, itulah 'tazkirah' saya untuk hari ini...

8 comments:

  1. CK, good thing you bagi tazkirah. I've reach my limits, fed up dgn one side yang 'open minded' and the other 'over islamic-x bertauliah'. Open minded = menghalalkan yang haram, islamic x bertauliah = mengharamkan yang halal. Enough said, point penting dlm tazkirah you ialah BERTANYALAH PADA YANG ARIF dan AHLINYA. SEtuju!

    Skrg ramai 'scholar' jadian, baca di internet terus SPECIALIST i tell you. I've had this unpleasant bicker in a blog because 'anonymous' said we should interpret the tafsir ourselves because ulamak bagi opinion yang sesuai dgn kehendak mereka je & best student read medicine so yg x pandai je go study religion (die dah buat survey ke?). Kelasss sgt anon tu bg statement brani mati.

    -Micha-

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    1. Hmm..i've heard that one before too..about yg pepandai pi buat medic and yg saki-baki tu je yg pi belajar agama.
      And one more thing bila certain ulama bagi pendapat, kalau dia tak setuju terus dilabelnya orang tu 'wahabi' ..tsk tsk tsk..

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  2. My sister pernah pesan sbb dia tau adik-adik dia ni suka bebenor lewat2kan solat..dia kata klu kita tgh2 leka buat kerja/benda yg kita tgh buat tu tetiba ajal kita sampai..dah tak sempat nak solat..x sempat nak bertaubat..masa tu nak menyesal pun x guna..

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  3. CK,

    I tepuk dahi banyak kali bila baca berita pasal negara kita, tambahan lagi bila baca komen-komen rakyat Malaysia rasa nak campak keyboard.

    Saya hormati nasihat CK, tapi ada perkara yang I may to differ. She made mistake with the storyline of the video, I agree, purposely provoking, I doubt.

    Video 3 tahun lepas, sekarang jadi issue. Why now?

    My 2 questions:
    1) kenapa double standard bila undang-undang nak menghukumi halal haram or simply Islam Malaysia?
    Sultan birthday party kat london openly ada alcohol(bukan perfume) on youtube, tapi few years ago, this young lady kena sebat.
    Last year, rakyat Malaysia perempuan lelaki semua terlompat lompat pakai baju kurung buat video lagu gangnam style, is ok? maknyah di jalan raya kena tangkap, memakai pakaian perempuan tetapi pelawak hiburan di TV is ok? Pasal sumbangan kewangan, ibadat yg mengikut standard Islam Melayu adalah channeling duit dan rombongan ke Gaza dan Syria. Forget about anak yatim malaysia, forget about the healthcare, forget about ibu tunggal malaysia.

    2) are we really that fragile?

    Saya marah dan kecewa. We should be worrying about the economy crisis, we are no longer stable, we are officially recognized as negative. Do we really want to see the Arab spring in this country?

    -cn-

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    1. Yes, about the arak thing..kalau selak Msian tatler tengoklah pembesar2 memegang gelas yg i don't think it's coke. Lepas pulak kan? Memanglah double standard. Jawapan to Q1 & Q2, yes and yes.

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  4. aiyok tatayokk nya....ye, saya telah mengqada segala sembahyang dalam satu masa.

    Tidaklah nak kata my niat will justify my action..but for me and only me who tahu kedaruratan masalah ku dan tak berharap langsung orang lain tu memahaminya, biarlah Allah saja yang buat keputusan menerima atau tidak solat saya ittew.

    Yes, guilty as charge..saya telah mem burn kan puasa just because ada satu masa, boss yg jarang saya jumpa mmg dah planning nak bawak kita makan. Saya kata saya berpuasa. Dan tinngal dlm opis sensorang. the whole lot, sebab hormatkan saya terus tak nak keluar lunch. tersentuh hati saya. masa tu saya buat keputusan..tak apa, puasa ini boleh diganti...lalu saya batalkan. will that made me a lemah iman etc etc, Allah saja yang tahu. But I know why I did it. I think, without blatantly disagreeing with you, apa yang tersurat is not easy for other to even comprehend. I am at all saying that yes, it is a right thing to do...but Allah maha pengampun. And by that sebagai orang Islam, we put Allah first before others (err boss besar etc) You want to be perfect, getting everything's right but is is easier said than done. One can only wish one is given strength to overcome segala kekhilafan.

    I am sorry to say this, as much as you may dislike the sound of Allah will understand, dia faham atau tidak, is not u or us to decide.

    Sekian. Closeted-secular Muslim. Chewwwwahhh.

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