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Monday, April 13, 2009

Pelik tapi benar

I've survived 3 days without MG. The kids are still in one piece...although i must say that my parents have been phoning to check that we're OK here. The first time they called, i was screaming at little D because she was doing a WWE on baby X. Nak terjulur lidah si kecik tu kena cekik dgn kakak. Lagi ditegah lagi buat...then baby X started to cry because she thought i was mad at her. Kadawale, kadawale. Tetapi dgn takdenya bapak diaorg, i pun jadi bertambah aktif sikit....bawak diaorg pi tengok ikan kat tasik. Walaupun dah dekat 5 tahun dok sini, baru first time pi tengok ikan kat tasik berdekatan..besar2 naa...kalau tak tiap2 minggu pak bebudak ni akan bawak educational tour ke shopping2 complex tertentu. Masakan little D di usia setahun jagung dah tau Testo, KLCiCi dan sebagainya.

MG has been smsing me regularly, tak sangka ingat gak dia kat bini dia walaupun dicelah2 kesibukan menghambat barangan di Republik Pisang dan sebagainya. Pas tu kononnya dah dapat idea yg bernas apa nak dibeli kat Rahsia Victoria setelah menonton pay per view channel...iye ke??? Entah2 channel yg menengok dia. Apa2 pun diharapkan MG menimba ilmu serta pengalaman dari sana utk kesejahteraan negara, bangsa dan rumahtangga..haha.

Anyway, in my previous post, there was a comment from an anonymous person about how pelik MG is. I supposed he is....but i am partly to blame. When i first married him, he must be one of the nerdiest, prudest (ada ka perkataan ini wahai Esah?), prissy guy i have ever met. Agaknya, he was a challenge to me....kalau set2 yg jual lambak cam kat pasar malam, sikit pun i takkan minat. Masa mula2 kawin, dia cakap kat i, kalau nak koreng hidung, do it in the toilet....tapi la ni, masa bawak keta pun sempat lagi korek lombong mas tu, wa cakap lu! And then i kagum dengan the condition of his pakaian dalam (seluar le, bukan baju)..they are in such good condition...takde yg ada lubang sebesar hama pun, apatah lagi yg tercabut riben (oops) or jahitan kelim dah terkeluar benang kat sekaki..get what i mean or not? (Btw, masa i dekat nak kawin, mak i cakap kat i, Cik Kiah, pi buang semua baju, seluar dalam mike and buy new ones. Malu kat MG! ---as if la masa tu the state of my undies matter, kan MG??) And it amazes me until today that bila i nak pinjam barang dia for e.g. notepad warna biru yg besar 2 inci...he'd be able to find it in 2 mins and tau je mana dia simpan i.e. kat laci nombor 2 dari kanan...amazing! Kalau suruh i cari seterika (if i were to keep it) yg sebesar alam tu pun i takkan dapat cari because heck! hidup i tak bersistem.

Yes, MG must seem weird to some people now...tak tau la kut he's also having mid-life crisis as suggested by Ida, andropause ke (too early huh??) ataupun memang he's kind of weird dari dulu and i encourage this trait in him...sort of like i have unleashed a monster le katakan.

Yes, he does get on my nerves a lot of the times.... and i do wish he depends on me more like for e.g. tak boleh tido malam tanpa nescafe buatan tangan (pengkor) i ke, atau perlu i picit2 ke, bukakkan stokin bila balik kerja ke (ee! Ngadanya!)....no, none of the above. It worries me that should i be gone tomorrow, dia tak sedar pun and masih menyeringai sorang2 tengok Friends ulangkali.

But for a start, that he even bothered to SMS is indeed good news to me..i think we should be away from each other more often. Although next time it should be me on girly trips to Bandung-ChiengMai-Pattaya like i've talked about and his turn to mind the little monsters at home.

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